Thursday, October 25, 2012

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month

And I was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Here is the scoop:
September 11, 2012 - first mammography since last one a year and a half ago
 
September 24, 2012 - They called me back for a second diagnostic mammography and recommended
                                    that I see a surgical oncologist.
 
October 4, 2012 - Met with Dr Kolli at Robert Wood Johnson Cancer
                              Center. she scheduled me for a biopsy.
 
October 18, 2012 - The biopsy was done at University Radiologists in New Brunswick.
                                Pain discomfort was a 3, emotional distress was a 22! Waiting for results..HELL!
 
Statistic -80% of biopsy results are negative.
 
October 23, 2012 - Angela and I on the spur of the moment  make plans and go to Stan's Shoe Shack
                               then to Michaels and then to the Bridgewater Mall. I was in the clearance section
                               of Michaels when the radiologist called with my results. All I heard was that my
                               biopsy came back positive. She said more but I guess I just tuned it out.
                               No crying! No hysterics! Ok, now I know! I am back in control and can take care
                               of this. Told all immediate family members except my father (wanted to tell him
                               in person).
 
October 24, 2012 - I practiced saying ....I have cancer! A little unbelievable and during Cancer
                                Awareness Month no less. Called Surgeons office and asked to change
                                appointment from November 1 to something this week  .....Oct. 25, 2012.     
                                Dinner with Caroline and Pop. Told Daddy. All  he could do was look at me and
                                shake his head, but we didn't cry.
 
October 25, 2012 - Today! Saw my surgeon Dr. Kolli. My diagnosis is Ductal Carcinoma in SITU
                                with breast calcifications (DCIS). It is a stage 0 cancer, which is very good. There
                                is only a 2% chance of it spreading into my lymph nodes.
                                The cancer will be surgically removed by a wire localized lumpectomy. I will
                                recover for 5 to 6 weeks and then begin 6 weeks, 5 days a week of radiation and
                                then I will begin a five year hormone treatment probably Tamoxifin. I will have a
                                mammography every six months for at least the next two years.
                                This type of cancer has a 100% five year survival rate. I WILL LIVE!

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Quick Update

You know how for a long time nothing happens and then boom! EVERYTHING happens? Well that's how it has been around here. Just a little overwhelming.

Just to name a few things:My Doctor appointments - good reports and bad reports - rechecks - scheduled biopsy -Samantha's eye exams - surgeons -Emilie and Matt trading in leased car - buying new car -Pregnant due March 2 -Pop taking written driving test (twice) - taking driving eye exam (once) - failing parallel parking twice - turning in driver's license -Tim and Robyn  emptying out parents/in-laws house - saying goodbye to in-laws (moving to S. Carolina) - Robyn quitting old job in NJ - getting new job in PA - Kellen being put into daycare (fulltime) -  Tim getting another job working from home - Me taking Pop grocery shopping, doctor's etc. (glad to do it) - Doug job hunting - finally getting a second interview - My biopsy scheduled for Halloween (2 weeks away/ too long) - rescheduled for Thursday, October 18th - Tim travelling for his job to Washington State next week - Me scheduled to babysit Kamryn and Kellen so Robyn can still go to work while Tim is away - (Don't forget Biopsy is Thursday)- Doug's interview on Wednesday Oct. 17 - Caroline and Diego secretly house hunting for the last two weeks - Finding the house of her dreams - They make an offer - (Stay tuned. There will be an update to this update probably with pictures) -I can't take anything but tylenol before biopsy..........The good news is that I AM NOT PREGNANT!

Friday, October 5, 2012

Time

Take time to see and capture the little things in life